Hey there!
I’m Patty

Photo of Patricia Dechant with her dog

Confession Time: I have always been a hopeless romantic and a total sucker for a good old tear-jerker, fairy tale happy ending. I’ve done the long-term relationship thing. I’ve done the major dramatic, depressing breakup. Three times over, actually. Like many women, I’ve made my share of poor choices and bad decisions and compromised my own dreams, wants and needs, all in the name of love. So I’ve learned the hard way some tough, but extremely valuable lessons.


Today, I can honestly say I’m in the best place I’ve been in my adult life.  


So, there’s my little secret: I’ve been you. I get where you’re at, because I was there once not so long ago, too. I know from experience what it takes to build yourself back up from all the heartache. AND I know first-hand that it’s even tougher when you feel all alone.

Those unique, quirky things

that make you YOU…

let your true beauty shine from the inside out.


And just for fun, here’s a few totally random facts about me.

I am that woman who…

Introduces herself as Patricia. Once we hit it off, you can call me Patty.

Has a wicked crush on Eddie Vedder. If you know who that is and you are right there with me… well, it’s possible I already love you, too.

Must acknowledge Eddie does come second to my French Bulldog, Bugatti. I love her to absolute bits. I proudly accept my crazy dog lady status, and am also the responsible pet owner who stashes a poop bag in my favourite Kate Spade purse.

Is generally a fan of the underdog and the wallflower. I mean, who doesn’t love a good comeback story? Plus, I believe everyone has a voice and deserves to feel heard.

Usually chooses comfort food in the form of peanut butter. Occasionally off a spoon right out of the jar, because I’m classy like that. Often with a side of chocolate.

Loves, loves, loves all things coffee.

Believes sarcasm and dark humour are their own forms of art.

Is a typical Scorpio and just might tell you astrology is my religion.



Patricia opened her heart and listened in a way that few…

“I met and have known Patricia through another group for months before I worked with her professionally, this gave me an advantage to know her and appreciate her views, abilities, and experience.

As a coach myself I entered the discussion with a discerning eye, and immediately felt safe to show up authentically vulnerable. I have known and worked with coaches, facilitators, healers, gurus, traveled the world as a workshop junky, Patricia opened her heart and listened in a way that few have the skill and confidence to do, like it was her second nature.

Her ability to listen, hear, and ask the leading questions was spot on. Her ability to formulate the right question gave me an opportunity to love and know myself better. For her service to us all is a gift, one I hope you will give yourself, soon!”

– Patricia Lochner

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